The biggest loser Inspiration

I saw the The biggest loser Asia, something inside the programme that really inspiring and give you energy. The supportive environment. Imagine the guy can slim down 50 plus kilo, that is one human mass.

A lot time in life, we become average because the environment we are in we just gave up. There are too many negative energy out there, people who like to put you down, people who like to discourage you, people who are so rigid in their thinking and behavior there are just too many kind of these people out there. They are like crab if you want to get of the basket, the crab behind you will drag you down.

That is a hell got inspiring programme, make you believe.

Painful

I didn't how much pain until i feel the pain, the pain of unfairness. Really painful, i could empathy for those who did not get their bonus and increment for this year. The pain come because the confusion:
1. Is it something that i have no control over.
2. Am i doing something that is not productive?
3. What is the feedback and why i've got no promotion?
I've that this pain can jolt me from the reality and get on and learn from this experience and venture elsewhere. I am wondering is the effort = rewards or impression = rewards. Really, this world is not as simple and fair as i thought so, naive i think so.